Saturday, May 2, 2009

My brother, the soldier

I was able to spend some time this past week with my brother Joshua and his family. I know, I don't talk about them. I'm a pretty crappy sister. Josh is in the Army (sorry, I can't remember his current rank) and has been stationed at Fort Campbell in Kentucky for around the past 4 years. He's been with the 101st Airborne division and does aircraft maintenance and repair. The last time I saw him and his family was about 2 1/2, actually probably closer to 3 years ago. In that time he has done a tour in Iraq and one in Afghanistan as well.

He was here because he had to go to Phoenix this weekend for some schooling. He'll be there for around 11 weeks. His wife and kids have gone to Japan to visit her family while he's there. I'm really happy they stopped here for a visit first. It was so nice to be able to catch up. Once he's done with schooling, he's being transferred to Fort Riley in Kansas. So, the likelihood of seeing him often is pretty slim.

I was able to look at pictures with him from his tours and listen to stories. He doesn't do combat, but has gone on a couple of missions. He mainly prepares the air crafts for the missions. He carries a weapon, but has never had to fire it. He showed me footage of actual battles that took place in Afghanistan and it was strangely surreal. I, of course, know that horrible things happen there everyday. It's just that this was the first time I had actually seen some something real. It gave me a whole new perspective and appreciation for the soldiers who are there or who have served there. I also have an entirely different idea of the people who live in those countries. And it's not bad. I actually have more empathy for many of them. I can't adequately express and articulate all of it here. It's something better said in person. Suffice it to say, I learned a lot.

6 comments:

Jules AF said...

I have so much respect for soldiers. I know that if someone were shooting at me, I'd be hiding with wet pants and then running as fast as I could in the opposite direction....
(And yes, I'm reading blogs on a Saturday night. Still headache/fever.)

Jillene said...

I felt the same way whe Matt's brother came home. Except he was right in the thick of things and has pictures and videos that could give even me nightmares. Everytime I think about the armed forces or hear the National Anthem----I'm sure you guessed it, but I cry. I am very appreciative of their hard work and dedication.

Whitney R said...

I can't imagine what each person goes through while there. I have a few friends and one of which completed two tours in Iraq. Talking to him is quite eye opening. I try to put myself in some of those civilian's shoes... what would it be like to be in a war zone? Anyway... I'm very glad you got to see your brother and that you had such a good time:)

Just SO said...

That is so nice that you were able to visit with your brother and see him. It's hard when we don't get to see our family as much as we would like.

I have such a respect for those who serve our country. I think that they are amazing.

danamack1 said...

When did he show you all of that? It was good they got to come and we had a few days with them. They will be back in July

Jo said...

Being a soldier is an honorable thing to do. Like you, that ugly stuff just seems so far away.